“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” – Proverbs 16:24 (English Standard Version)
I recently caught part of a podcast that featured a conversation between some seasoned comedians.
For the most part, the discussion centered on the long, painful, arduous journey to success in the field of comedy.
Everyone has to start somewhere, and in the world of trying to make people laugh, getting off the ground is particularly difficult, if not near impossible.
Each of the podcast’s humorists told stories of times when they completely bombed a show. Now, with their mess-ups so far in the past, these comics can safely laugh about such monumental failures. But back then, while crashing and burning on stage and in real time, each of them described feelings of despair. They wondered if their inability to get anyone to laugh (and in some cases, pushing people to annoyance or even anger) signaled the demise of their career.
This is an experience of which most of us will never know. Most people won’t dare put themselves in such a precarious position, fraught with such wide margins for failure and embarrassment.
One thing I did find interesting from the conversation was this: in every single instance of utter comedic implosion, a fellow comedian would quickly connect with the despondent comic, seeking to share words of encouragement and hope.
Comedians know how hard the road to success can be. They’ve all had an off-night when the jokes didn’t connect and the crowd left unsatisfied. Sometimes they’ve bombed so badly, they can only think of quitting…or worse. So when a fellow comic sees one of his own stumbling and struggling, he know exactly how it feels. Out of such empathy comes the desire to keep a sinking comedian from drowning.
The bottom line takeaway I got was this: none of these comedians ever wanted to see another comedian give up and call it a career. So, they made sure to swiftly connect with a shell-shocked partner after a dreadful performance.
I wonder: how many comedic careers have been saved because a fellow comedian stepped in to bolster the flagging emotions of a tail-spinning colleague?
In light of all this, I couldn’t help think of an expression I’ve heard many times through the years: “Christians are the only army known to shoot their wounded.” The connotation is that, rather than encouraging a brother or sister who is floundering, our unhelpful attitudes of pride or indifference cause us to attack, abuse or ignore our faltering comrade.
Rather than bless, we burden.
Rather than help, we hurt.
Rather than lift, we let fall.
Yet, the New Testament letters of the Bible are filled with expressions known as the “the one another’s,” pithy little directives that instruct us on how to look out for each other in times of difficulty or distress.
Here’s a sampling of some of the exhortations that spiritually-minded people are to employ:
Don’t bite, devour, and consume one another (Galatians 5:15)
Be kind, tender-hearted, and forgiving to one another (Ephesians 4:32)
Seek good for one another, and don’t repay evil for evil (1 Thessalonians 5:15)
Be devoted to one another in love (Romans 12:10)
Encourage and build up one another (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Stimulate one another to love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:24)
Without encouragement, hardship can feel meaningless, and the will to press forward can wane.
Without encouragement, life can soon feel hollow and burdensome.
Without encouragement, we can be overwhelmed by the challenges that lie in front of us.
Thus, the Bible strongly encourages us to encourage one another. We are to remind each other of the truth that God loves us, that God equips us, that we are treasured, that our struggles are worth it.
Proverbs 16:24 says, “Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones (ESV).” Ah, to have healing words mend our spirits and soothe our souls!
Who is it in your sphere of influence that could use a word of encouragement today? You may not realize it, but your words may redirect their life back into a positive direction.